Years dont count if your not with the right one

     I notice that many many many many many many teenagers out there are facing love problems, heartaches, broken heart, lost hope and so on. One case in particular that I want to talk about today is for those of you who have already been in a relationship for a few years now but things just aren't working out so well. If you are one that's having a bf/gf that is not so good to you, then you should read til the end. Those wo arent having this problem, finish reading too! >=O

     In my point of view, a healthy relationship is when both boy and girl give and take. Both tolerate each other for their mistakes and flaws. Being able to see each others' imperfections perfectly.

     There is absolutely no point in being together if you're the one giving all the love and your partner just gets and dont do anything about it. Look at it this way, there is no point loving someone who does not love you back! Worse if he/she doesnt even care about you! Its like you didnt even exist. No matter how much love and affection or no matter how much effort you put in trying to make that person love you, it will not work. It's best you give up on this relationship and find a new and better one.

     I know you might say things like, "We've been together for 5 years now and it'll be such a waste if I let go of this relationship. I can make this right again. I can make him/her love me again!" Well, im sorry to say that sadly, this is not the case. It does not matter how many years you've went through together, those years gone dont and wont mean a thing if your partner is shit! Seriously, if he/she is not treating you right, then you should have left him/her straight away without feeling guilty or sad because its their loss. Why? Because he/she just lost someone who is able to love them despite them being asses. As for you, be glad you are able to get out of this dump and find yourself a better partner really. YOU DESERVE BETTER! Dont force yourself into something you do not want in the first place. Think about it, no one is really forcing you except you yourself. You have the rights to choose who you be with.

Be a little tad Considerate

        There are so many inconsiderate people around us agree? Sometimes i am myself but i try my best not to be. We cant help it, its just our so called culture here already. What im trying to mean is that we should keep these in mind and practice it daily to make our world a better place. These are a few things to keep in mind

1)Take away that "oh i want this done, but i dont want to do it myself. Its ok ill let someone else do it. Someone else will probably do it" If you want some thing done, always keep in mind that you'll have to act on it yourself. Dont wait on others. It may be too late or it will never come. For example, I wanna advice a friend whose down but i just dont want to sound weird and im afraid he wont accept my advice so ill just wait for someone else to advice him. Sadly, that wont happen. So act on it!

2)Be considerate. It may be a small and normal matter to litter a sweet rapper on the floor but we shouldnt do it. No matter if its small, or its big, its still something that adds to being a considerate person. I know it may be hard at first but hey, start small. Maybe start with small rubbish. Keep the rubbish or hold on to it in the mean time until you find a rubbish bin. Some times its even harder to see someone littering and trying not to litter. Yes its hard, because you might think, "hey, that guys doing it. Why cant I?' Let me tell you what you should do. Go  and pick up the guy's rubbish and throw your rubbish along with his in the rubbish bin when you find one. That will make you a very considerate person

3)Treat others how you want to be treated. This is very basic stuff but a lot of people just miss it. You dont want to be hurt, then dont hurt others. You dont like others to treat you badly, then dont treat others badly. Come on, the least we can do here is to be a bit tad considerate. Always think in a two way kind of view. If you dont like what others doing this to you, then dont do it. Simple.


I know its hard to do this sometimes especially if you're trying to treat others how you want to be treated but still getting treated badly. Dont be demotivated, because if someone is being an ass, that does not mean you have to be too! God knows our heart and he will definitely know our intentions. We might not see it happen in instantly or in mass, but hey, at least it starts from us no? Even if people around us are inconsiderate, that doesnt mean we have to be one too. The main purpose of this is to make people realize, that being a bit tad considerate all the time can go a long way not only to help shape our country but also on how others will treat us. Give it a thought. Be better =)

Group Work! So ineffective

  I always think group work or group discussions are so ineffective and a waste of time. There will be like five people in that group and only one or maybe if your're lucky, two will be doing all the work while the rest sits there with a poker face pretending not to know anything, avoiding to have to do work. That's me by the way with the poker face all the time. I always choose to group with those people in class who always do all the work so that i can slack all the way. Im bad. =( Anyways, group work can be so ineffective if the main purpose of group work is to promote team work.

The Marauder!

This is not a car. Its a monster! I would love to own one. It looks cool, its stylish, it smashes, it moves, you dont have to worry about accidents (in terms of your safety and the repairs needed for your car), Its spacious as well! Oh man, Its just awsomely scary! >=0 Please leave your comments and tell me if you would want one

Ways people seek attention from the opposite sex

      We all have a friend or know someone whose an attention seeker whom will die for attention. Well, in my opinion, its not wrong or right, or good or bad to be seeking attention because its just natural to be wanting a little attention especially from the opposite sex. You know its true! It also varies to how they are doing it but here's a few examples that are too much so that its annoying, obvious and just plain dumb. Extreme much cases.

1)he/she posts everything on Facebook or on the blog. Believe me, EVERYTHING! Its quite annoying at times as it floods your Facebook feed with just their lifestyle. They'll just post everything they do for that day and hope someone would like their post or comment on them. They post up things like what their having for breakfast, lunch, tea, dinner, supper. Also on new things they've recently bought and all the annoying stuff. This is quite extreme where if you want to know about that person, just add them on Facebook and you'll know them thoroughly without even the need to befriend them in real life. These are the attention seekers I like to call, "PUBLIC DIARIES"

2)moving on is one where (mostly girls), They will post up complaints on Facebook and hoping people will notice them and give pity onto them.  They will complain about their job, their life, their family, friends and just basically every little thing in life that no one would even want to care about. Then she'll wait for people to comment and cheer her up. She sets the trap and waits for the bait. Don't fall for their trap because if you try to ask them what's happening, if you're a girl they'll say "oh its nothing really". If you're a guy, she'll probably say "oh darling! Its awful! Its this and that and blah blah blah blah!" but in fact she just missed an episode of glee.

3)this one is a bit similar with the second one except it happens to both gender. The person will post a picture of himself/herself vaining and have himself/herself comment on his/her own photo saying,"I'm so ugly". In fact the picture will probably be the best picture they've ever taken with the best possible angle and photoshopped ever. Then they wait. Waiting for somebody to comment things like "oh no your not!" Then they'll be so happy that they reply with "oh yes I am ugly!" to keep the compliments going and going and going! I call this, "FISHING FOR COMPLIMENTS"

4)That annoying person that tries so hard to crack up jokes all the time but only when there are people of the opposite sex around. Sometimes their not funny! In fact, their annoying, stupid, lame,dumb and sometimes offensive. Its like their a total different person when it comes to having other people of the opposite sex around. They just try too hard to get their attention. We all have that friend now and then. True story.

If you are one of these examples or your all of them combined, >=0

Think this, we don't need to get so much attention from people. We don't necessary need the attention from others because god sees our heart and our intentions. If you do good, god will surely give you the attention and credit your need and wanted. So there is no need to put in such a tremendous amount of effort in getting attention from everybody. Please god, that's all you ever need really. Leave your comments down below here and tell us what kind of attention seekers youve encountered :)

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This blog is ALIVE again!!!

Its been quite some time since my last post and I hope you readers didn't lose heart in reading my blog. The reason why I left my bog for so long was because I was busy with a lot of stuff. I was improving myself. I've grown a lot since last time and I'm a Christian now, praise the lord. I'm currently on my third semester on my physiotherapy studies. Life's been rather hectic so far. I had my fair share of ups and downs as well. I just want you guys to know that I'm  writing again and more frequent this time. I hope you guys will continue to support my blog and help spread my blog to other blog reading lovers out there. Thank you so much and god bless you all. =)

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Be awsome 7 days a week

7 days a week, be ourselves, be beautiful. We dont need fancy designer clothes, make ups, fake body parts to be beautiful. Everyone is beautiful the way they are. You dont need to compare.

Colloseous mansions, expensive super cars, and mountains made of money notes dont make us who we are. We are who we are and we are awsome who we already are.

God made us beautifully and there will always be someone that cares for us no matter what our odds may be.

All luxuries in life are just accessories for our comfort, not to shape us, Money cant buy true happiness. It just gives us temporal happiness.

Dont care how others judge us.. If their nobody to us, then their opinions dont matter. What matters are the people close to us. They will definately not judge us because they love us for who we are.

Why improve yourself comparing with others? There will always be someone better than us at some things and vice verssa.

To be honest, I think everyone is great when they have nothing. We live by faith, not knowing what comes next of whatever we do will have a great and positive outcome in the future and yet we still continue doing it. Why? By faith ofcourse.

Dont let others pull you down. Im prove yourself according to yourself. If you think your not good enought at something then improve yourself to be better than who you are now.

I hope I help at least one person reading this post. Dont compare with others, dont underestimate yourself, dont think yuo cant because you definately can. Everyone can. I hope to see a better world to live in. Be considerate, dont be selfish. This post is purely my property and not to be reposted without the proper credit to me. No im not trying to show off. I just dont want people to think i copied this from anywhere because I came up with this 100% myself. God bless.

Just a little update detail about my blog. For those of you loyal readers out there that has been following my blog from previous posts you may notice that my posts nowadays arent as funny as before. Thats because i just cant stand people nowadays. I just have to post something for them to learn about hoping they would change for the better and making life better to live. Remember new readers, if you want to read about funny random stuff, view my older posts (very old posts). For easier navigation, click on the side links to navigate straight to older posts. The side taps are not for decoration you know. Its for your convinience so use them. Hopefully future posts will be a little less serious.

Childish

I notice that a lot of People tend to use the term childish on others quite wrongly. The word childish is child like. I bet a lot of you didint even realize that huh? A lot just use the term childish on others but most of the time its wrongly used. Let me tell you why. Lets start with the age of 18 for example. At the age of 18, the brain has fully developed. Not to some special people but we wont go there. Playing games at the age of 18 is NOT childish. Thats just what some feel is fun and to kill some time. Being unserious and joking around is NOT childish because that person likes a happier atmosphere so by joking there will be laughters and life will be more fun. Has no future plans. That is NOT childish! Thats because maybe he/she hasnt thought of it yet or he/she just didnt tell you about it. That is seriously NOt being childish. We're only 18, the future is very unclear(especially at the age of 18). Sometimes if people dont tell you about thir future plans, it doesnt mean that they havent thought about it. Childish people are the type of people where, eg:
1)unable to make tough decisions
2)very self centered. They will alwYs just want others to go their way
3)unable to accept big changes. Changes come no matter we want it or not but we'll just have to accept it because changes will bring us foward in life
4)unable to take opinions from others
5)will not take no for an answer ALL the time
There you go. Next time when your about to call some one childish, think twice before you do. Dont act like your so matured and all because if your matured enough, you'd wish to be childish, dont even have to care and worry about anything. (not a single fk was given that day) -yes im a fan of 9gag.com =D calling a guy childish is very offensive because it is really degrading and shameful. Its like being unable to get his life together. Live life like your suppose to, not acting all matured. Sometimes its alright to be a little childish, so that we would bring back good memories and enjoy a little. Life is all about doing the things you like and enjoying it. If people call you childish, just smile knowing that the person calling you that is probally more childish. Their just calling you childish because they dont understand.

Studying a shame?

Studying is NOT a shamful thing. I know you've met some people (especially high school students)  that will always claim that they dont study at all but always score in exams. Why is that so? Its because he/she studies at home but is just too ashamed to admit it to their friends. Its not a shameful thing to admit to people that you actually do study. Your not a nerd if you study and you dont necessary be ashamed if you tell your friends that you study but still fail in exams. Just tell them you'll try better next time and indeed you'll have to. To a lot of people, studying is something which is not cool. Not studying, skipping classes, trying to create problems in school is actually the cool trend for teenagers. Actually it is cool, BUT do you just want to be cool in high school but fail in life after that? Think for a moment there, high school will probally be 5 years +/- depending on countries but in malaysia its 5years for normal students. So basically being cool for 5 years and being a loser for the rest of your life because you cant earn enough because you didnt study in school. It aint worth it really. Why not just study hard and do well and be cool your whole life after that? No im not saying you'll have to actually study hard and all just to earn a good living. Yes, you may say that people that dont study but end up billion kazilianairs after that (billgates). Yes that's true but the normal path is to study, do well in college, university and earn a good job in life after that. Not everyone can be successful if they start from nothing you know. I dare to say that there's not even 10% out of everyone that didnt do well in school, college and uni. So what im basically telling you here is, if your skipping school and stuff, i advice you to at least put some effort and have some initiative and heart to your studies. It'll do you a whole lot of good in future. Trust me, ive been there done that! By the way, if you did badly in high school, its alright. Dont think your studying days are over because its not necessary that someone doing very good in high school will do good in college and uni. College is basically a fresh new start for you to turn over a new leaf. People will not know about your past and will not care too. You did good, you did bad. It doesnt matter at all. As long as you put your heart to it. It doesnt matter how long you take to get there, as long as you dont stop. Ive got a good example of a true life story about someone whose that but i wont post it on this post as its off topic. Dream big, live big.

Arrogance is a weakness

Being arrogant is indeed a weakness because sometimes just paying attention and giving a little thought may bring benifits. If someone is telling you something you already know, my advice is to just listen to him/her anyways. This is because sometimes we know something but the person telling us the same thing might know something deeper. So by listening to them despite knowing, may sometimes let you understand further. If you already know what the person tells you at the end of the conversation, then good for you. You know as much as the person. If not, then good for you too because by listening to them you've learned something =D

Unlucky, Really unlucky!

This morning turned out to be quite a good one but towards the end of the 2nd lesson in class, something unlucky happened. After biomechanics class, we were the first group to leave the hall but then something came up. Some lecturer wanted to see us (that was what i was told) so we went out for a quite smoke and chit-chat but as i was half way talking, a god damn bird released its shit on my head! BOMBS FROM ABOVE! I dont know how the eff the bird got so lucky to have had directly got it on my head!?!?! As soon as i felt it i asked my fren was it shit or not. I was hoping i wasnt but i was! NO!!!! As soon as i found out, i ran to my car. Got in and drove off back home like a maniac! As soon as i got home first thing is to the showers. The worst part was when after ive cleaned up and all, they told me it was canceled so in fact i could have went back in the first place and all this could have been avoided! GAHH, REALLY an UNLUCKY day!! I hope this is my first and my last experience on this!

Why cry over spilt milk?

Bad things happen to everyone and that's life. We can't change anything about it. There is seriously absolutely no point being sad about something bad that has happened. Instead, you should try your very best to fix it. If all else fails, then you'll just have to accept and adept to the situation. There are some things in life that we cannot change at all. Sadly but true. That's life and we either adept of or die. Its hard but hey, every one's doing it why cant you? If it makes you feel at least better, your not facing problems alone. Try putting a smile on that face every time bad things happen. I promise you that it will make life more colourful and so much easier to live. There will always be people that care for us no matter how badly we do in life so cheer up!

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AHHH!!! Ive written a lot of things that i want to post up here in my phone but somehow their all gone!! I gues ill just have to postphon in posting new posts! Sorry guys! I really want to post them but i cant! >.< As soon as i get my results next week ill post up a lot of  updates in my life. Please dont stop supporting and reading my posts! I promise to update more posts!

Racial Views

As a fellow malaysian, I would like to remind you guys that we're living in a multi racial country. Why are people nowadays (teenagers mostly) being such a racist. Just because someone from a particular race is an asshole or have done something unpleasant in your life, that doesnt mean you should hate that entire race. Try to take a second to think logically. We are all still only human you know. If your being racist, then i pity you. You dont see the colourful life as i see. Im not a racist. I have friends and i love my friends from all kinds of races. To me, its not a matter or race or religion. Its all culture and way of life. Every race and religion has their own culture and way of life and are all beautiful. Just because people are different from you doesnt mean you should hate them. Instead you should get to know them better. Trust me, if you can see past this racism issue, life would be more fun and colourful. Knowing multiple languages, seen different cultures and know about other religions. That is like being able to enjoy different kinds of friendship, language, believes, and more. Its just awsome when you have friends who are so different from you coming together as one, FRIENDSHIP.

Few new posts coming soon, just too lazy to post them currently =P

If life was a game

How nice would it be if life was just a game. If you find that life is getting hard, you could lower the difficulty level! You could restart to any point in your life if you've done something wrong and regrettable. You can try out different paths in life and if it doesn't work out just restart to your preferred point in life. Also, dont have to worry about dying to because you could just simply start over. Be whoever you want to, do whatever you want and you could also pause the game at any time. Every thing except you freeze in the pause mode. Life could just be perfect! You never get old too!! How awesome would life be if it was this way huh?
If you read through here, then your just wasting your time and energy because life isn't game! XD Welcome back to reality. Life's a B***H

Pain good or bad?

Is pain a good thin or bad? Some people say, "This is a stupid question! Of course its bad". Pain in my definition is not just physical pain but also the one you fell in your heart, the feeling of uneasiness and suffering that cannot be cured by science or medicine.

You seem if we humans feel no physical pain, we wont take care of our body well. Let's say for instance, you purposely run at top speed and bang head-on against the wall and you dont die, would you be afraid to try it another time since it didnt hurt? Answer is nope you wont be afraid to do it again. You feel no pain, that  why its not stopping you to make such a dumb move to hurt yourself . So you see, physical pain stops us from hurting ourselves and teaches us a lesson to not commit dumb acts that can hurt us.

Whereas for mental pain, let's just say we cannot fell the pain on the inside. We would commit acts tat we loose out such as tricked of all money again and again, loosing loved ones wouldnt matter at all and so on. With the feeling gone, we dont feel guilt, we don't feel love, and we do not cherish anything that is important to us, With the feeling on the other hand, we learn to feel pain and to be stronger too. Not to forget that we would try even harder to achieve something we fail in the past.

Lesson here is that every time we feel pain, we learn! Learn to be stronger, learn to overcome our problems when times are hard, learn not to hurt ourselves and others and last of all learn from our mistakes and remember never to repeat them again. So is pain good or bad? You tell me.

ATTENTION ALL READERS

READERS,
       I want to get some things clear about my blog. Firstly, EVERYTHING in this blog is 100% my ideas. i DID NOT copy any of my posts from anyone! its all 100% from my highly intelligent brain to this blog. XD So if you ever ever see any of the similar posts elsewhere, then im sure he/she copied me!  >=O


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If i were to be goverment pt1

Have you guys ever thought of being the goverment of Malaysia? I HAVE =D
Malaysia is a very beautiful country actually. A lot may not think the same but in fact it is but i dont think your here to read about me blabbing about malaysia itself. Lets continue to the part where what if im a government!!!

If i were to become the new government of Malaysia and i have total control of this country, id change a lot of things! Id implement new laws!  First of all is that Malaysia will not be an Islamic country anymore, instead it will be a  MULTI-CULTURAL country. No offense to Islamic people.



I'd say if i was goverment, tax wont be lowered. The money collected wont go down anyones pocket if u know what i mean WINKS*. On the other hand, it will come back to the citizen and no im not talking about giving out free money to everybody if that is what you have in mind. The money collected will be used to efficiently improve the country and have the citizen better lives. 
 For example, i would build better road systems and have better public transports for those who are not so fortunate to own a vehicle. These transports consists of better quality busses, underground trains, LRTs and more. Then, low cost houses for the less fortunate will be better upgraded in size and  design. Maintainence will be held monthly to repaint or repair any damage of the buildings. 



Alright, enough with the boring part and get on with the interesting parts. I'd also change a few laws. Public goverment schools' rules will not be so tight. Uniforms will differ for every school meaning every school has their own set of uniform and no schools will have the same. It's easier to recognize at first glance dont you think? I know a lot of you are very very particular about your outlook and all when in school so im going to change the rule regarding that. For boys, you dont have to keep your hair neat and all. You can leave it as long as you want or have whatever colour you want on. If you feel it looks good on you then you can have it. Girls, you can have whatever hairstyle you want. On one condition though, as long as it does not interrupt your academic studies! I feel that if you force them not to keep long hair and all its not really effective because deep inside, everyone wants to look good right? School wont be in such long hours anymore instead, there's a maximum study limit cap. Every school may only teach up to 5hours of studying at max. The rest is up to the school to implement the studying schedule.Also, the environment of schools MUST be improved way better for students to study in a better environment. I believe that when your given the freedom and the comfort zone to study, students tend to study better and not rebel. Like they say, youths are the future of every country =)


  Theres a lot more but for now ill end this post. Come back and read more if your interested in this post but in the mean time you can browse my older posts. Their AWSOME =D Oh and also, if you like this post and want part 2, write to me on facebook =) if i get a lot, ill be so happy and ill continue writting =D