Love, experience, growing up,

Love and life has a lot in common. Both, we learn to do the right things but if we do the wrong things, we learn from our mistakes and to never repeat them through the easy way or the hard way. My love life isnt perfect, in fact it's complicated and pretty messed up.

I learned that love is something that everyone must go through sooner or later. May it be at high school, college, work place, neighbourhood, online, offline?, that line this line whose line my line your line -_-. Everyone has to go through it. I personally went through the hard way but recently ive learned something important in the process and i would like to share it with all of you.

You see, i made a wrong decision 2 years back and the outcome was huge. Sure it may be a good decision back then but after that i realized how stupid i was. After the day, my whole life came crumpling down without her. I just learned and realized from yesterday that no matter how hard you try to fix a sinking ship, you wont bring the ship back to it's sailing days.

People say that why wait for a tree when you can have a mountain full of trees? or even there are a lot of fishes in the sea and we'll be the fishermen/women. The meaning to these sayings are that why wait and commit all your time for a girl/guy when you can go looking for others more and far better than them? You may say it's because im loyal, committed and faithful but the thing is, the relationship is long gone and things wont be the same any more. Time wont rewind and things wont be like it used to be so i say, move on. Find a better one, you deserve better treatment because everybody deserves to be loved right? RIGHT! Though you may still love the person very very much still, but it cannot be helped. No matter how hard you try, things arent the same anymore and it wont get any better if you try harder. Best to give up and look for a new one to start a new life with them. Memories will never fade but nevertheless move on... No point waiting.

The point is, even though you still love that person, you may still continue with your life and find a new one. Who knows maybe the love for the new person may overlap the old one. Loyal and committed is another thing. Most people dont get how it really goes. I myself dont, until just yesterday. Commitment and loyalty towards someone is when your partner shows it to you as well. Its a two way thing. You cannot do it alone. So if you guys are still stuck at a point, i suggest you move on =/ If you guys need any advice, ring me up. Im there to listen to your sad stories because i myself have been through it. Everyone has their own set of sad story. =/

Lovely quotes for your loved ones . (sort of)

Here are some romantic quotes for you love birds out there =P

Your the air i breathe

Your the honey and im the bee

Your the music i listen to

Your the toast and im the butter

Your the apple in the pie i eat

Your the decay in my teeth

Your the sweat from my body

Your the shit that comes out from my anus

Your the urine i pee

Your the mud and im the grass

Im just kidding guys. Dont say these quotes to your loved ones XD

faithful and unfaithful guys

Faithful guys tells his girl that he loves her everyday
Unfaithful guys tells his girl or rather girls that he loves her once in a while

Faithful guys wait for his girl to sleep
Unfaithful guys well, they just sleep 0.0

Faithful guys says yes to whatever his girl's needs
Unfaithful guys says no to whatever his girl's needs

Faithful guys says i love you to his girl
Unfaithful guys says i love you to his girls

Faithful guys are hard to find
Unfaithful guys are easy to find

Faithful guys tells his girl everything she needs to know
Unfaithful guys tell his girl everything she needs to know except, their all lies

Faithful guys are always happy with his girl
Unfaithful guys are always unhappy with his girl and always complains about it

Faithful guys tells his buddies that shes the one
Unfaithful guys tells his buddies that which one is the one to choose from?

Faithful guys waits for his girl no matter how long it takes
Unfaithful guys waits for his girl but in the mean time, he gets other girls

Life of a form5 student

A life of a form 5 student is hard especially when its near the SPM exam. First, we need to take in account that a 17 year old student is undergoing puberty. Body changes occurs both physically and mentally, chemically as well. That would be strange to some to handle.

Secondly, The stress on studies for the big exam. Parents nagging, heart uneasy.

Thirdly, entertainment and friends. You may think that entertainment and friends arent important but i can tell you that both are very well important. The reason is because, people give up entertainment and friends for studies but deep down inside their heart, they still want to have fun and enjoy but they cant because of the SPM exam. This causes a lot of stress for the person.

You may say that everything will be alright after the SPM exam but to me its not so because that's when the fun stops. You see, in school we live a happy carefree life. Our parents or guardians worry about the finance and everyday life struggles and as for us, all we have to do is to go to school and to learn a thing or two while having fun at it. Upon leaving school, i feel that there's a hollow gap that needs filling. It needs the enjoyment of the school life. School may be hard sometimes but at times its fun. That kind of fun cannot be attained once your out of school. The fun where we run around, play here and there in school with our fellow friends. Example, we learn to respect one another. We learn how to enjoy ourselves and to attain knowledge along the way. Those are all going to end once your out of school. I personally enjoyed my high school life at my younger days around 13-15 years old. After that, its all stress and more stress because of all the worrying on friends, studies, or even my future where i dont know what to do after high school. I really miss those days where all we do in school were play and more playing, play pranks on each other, make friends and more. These friendship bondings are the best because we get to know one another.

SPM is near so my advice is this, dont study anymore but just look through and refresh your mind on your subjects. Just have a quick revision. Then, one day before the exam starts, enjoy yourself. Have your brain a refreshing rest. Let it rest, have some fun, get some time out with friends and enjoy yourselves. That's a good way to take the exam. I guarantee you, you'll feel much better when taking the exam. Get a good rest before the exam day and eat well also.

Lastly, i bid everyone whose taking SPM good luck. Hope you guys do well. =) Dont forget, enjoy your life =D

Who needs love when you have friends =D

Like the title says, who needs love when you have friends right? RIGHT!
Couples shares everything but it wont last forever. How many times does a person changes a bf or a gf? (typical teenager) Around 2-3 averagely calculated. How about friends? How often do you change friends? The answer is 2% of the time which sums up to be very very very slim chance. Well after reading all those, i hope you get my point but i hate to ring it to you. All those were made up by me -_- you just got punked =P

Although, friends are good, being in a relationship is as well. There are of course pros and cons to both. example,

1)Friends you can keep them for a long time where as bf/gf, tend to change a lot at the teenage hood.

2)You share stuff that you dont share with anyone else, even your closest friends but you do with your partner.

3)The feeling of having a friend and a bf/gf are both totally different.

4)Friends are there for you when you need them for example, on breakups. BF/GF ditch you on breakups XD

5)Friends tend to last longer whereas partners, well they tend to change. A lot for some people and a few for some, for some even none but those cases are very very very very very very very very very very rare -_-

6)Friends are easy to find and they come in bunch, groups and sometimes even bundles? huh? 0.0 GF/BFs they only come in one. How sad =(

7)If your still reading this, your my true fan haha. Im just too lazy to write anymore XD

The world

The world is not an easy place to live in, but its not a hard place either 0.0 what am i saying? Well you see, some people are born with a good life and for some, they work themselves up the ladder. Its up to you to decide your fate and future. No such thing as luck if your wondering =P Some have big dreams BUT no effort. Some, dream big but the dreams die off sooner or later so stop dreaming and just do it. Things will work out eventually. The world is somehow fair in a way. You cannot have everything and yet u wont get nothing. Its like the saying goes, "in order to receive, you have to give" (i think so?) You gotta help yourself to help yourself.

BLOG IS OUTDATED AND WILL BE UPDATED ONLY AFTER SPM! PLEASE COME BACK THEN. THANKYOU.

life's lesson

Life may be hard for everyone in some point of their lives no matter its love, financial, work, family or studies, there will always be hard moments in life. No one can escape that and there's no shortcuts in life so maybe these advice will help you people to go through life a little better. Its like oil on a rusted wheel.

1)Love is something everyone cannot deny. It happens when it happen at any age. I realize that most teenagers encounter this problem rather than adults. The simple reason is because thats all for a teenager to worry about other than their studies. (A normal schooling teenager i mean) Well, if your relationship with your boy/girl isnt going well, then be honest with him/her. Talk out your problems together and solve them together. That's what love is all about and dont hide it from each other and keep it all to yourselves. That's the worst thing ever. Most likely to explode and ruin the whole relationship. Then as for you those who are desperately in love with one person, all i can say is try your best and dont give up. Then for those who have broken up with their partner, you can try again to fix the relationship BUT dont do it again the 2nd time if it doesnt work out. That will never work, trust me.

2)Financial problems is all around us. The human needs are unlimited and what a human can earn obviously will never cover what they need i believe. Just try your best to do something your good at. If your good at something, i believe you will earn enough. I cant really give much advice on this as im still a student so best of luck =P

3)Work is something a human need to do to overcome everyday life expenses. It doesnt matter what you do or how much you earn, as long as you contribute to society. That's what i feel is best. For example:A teacher's pay, to be frank is not that high but its a really glorious job. Your giving knowledge to people and to me that's a really good job. Really contributing to society. For instance, a "street sweaper", that job is importatn

Childhood and adulthood

Remember those times when everything was still new and blur? The pure innocence of a child. What are the difference between the life of childhood and adulthood? Well, here they are:-

1) Remember those times when you want to have a sip of water but you'll have to ask the permission of the teacher first? "Teacher teacher! may i drink water pleeeeaaaseee?" Well, how about now? Just take your bottle, slot it in your mouthand swallow away without asking. =)

2)Your unsure which color pencil to use when coloring so you ask the teacher. Teacher says use light blue and you accidentally used blue. The teacher scolds you for not following instructions. Well screw that when your older! i use whatever colors i want to create my own masterpiece!

3)When we were young, we were very afraid of everything. We haven't explored the world quite just yet. A stranger knocks you on purpose and you apologize even if their in the wrong because your just afraid. When your older, your answer to the stranger would be WTF is your problem moth** F*****?!

4)Hearing about marriage or relationships or kissing would be disgusting when we were young. YUCK! But when we're older, marriage seems like a necessasity to bond two loving people's sould together and to make a family. Awww..... But too bad i still think its yucky! =P

5)Holding hands may seem like the end of the world for boys and girls at a young age but at adulthood, hehehe... Even when there's no one holding your hand, you'll be pleading in your heart that someone of the opposite sex would. "Please hold my hand!! a hug will do fine too!!! " XD

Teachers

Being a teacher isn't the easiest job in the world. They have to look after their own children and at the same time, other people's children as well. Students will blame the teachers and forever hate them if the teachers were to scold them. Well you gotta understand people, they aren't here to create havoc or to make our lives harder than it already is. Their here because to some, they have a passion to teach, to others, they love kids, to some, its the holiday and to some its just money.
The ones that have a passion to teach and loves kids, well, these teachers are soon to be extinct. The simple reason is because, ;- If you study real hard all your life and you've managed to get your hard earned sweat and blood degree or even masters cert, would you want to be a teacher and get a small amount of pay or rather get a job that pays you way more? I dont think so.
Then those who were miserable in their school life when they were young, the ones that got bullied in school, looked down, stepped on, well those are the ones that ends up being teachers nowadays because society simply rejects them so the only way for them is to crawl back to school again but this time they dominate as teachers. These people are usually psychologically disturbed and they would abuse their authority to bully the students and yes, make our lives even harder! So conclusion is, we need more quality teachers. Those with experience. No matter the age, the older you are, the more knowledge you'll have so to me, the pension limit at 55yrs old is wrong! Those who are able can still teach.
School is not based only on academically but also on personality and skills and these experienced teachers can teach what young and unexperienced teachers cannot. That's the way a school should be run, not with uneducated, unexperienced and mentally retarded teachers. =P

Topic of the day: Types of vaining

Vaining is very common amongst teenagers, especially girls!! Everytime they walk by a mirror, they have to surely take a glance at their hair, touch a bit and there to make sure its still in good shape. Well, its not wrong, but dont overdo it -_- it'll make you look like a monkey!
Other than looking oneself in the mirror all the time, theres also another occurance that is very very very popular amongst teenagers and that is PHOTO TAKING!! Yes thats right your eyes have not done you wrong yet! Photo taking is done by girls and boys alike but usually girls does more of it.

Ok here are some examples of the types of style people take vain pictures of themselves.

1) First one is the "CAM WHORE" type. They will take a pic of themselves whenever possible! Whenever their eating, bathing, siting down, standing up, brushing their teeth, talking, singing, taking a crap, sleeping, waking up, in the toilet, in the restaurant, in the car, in the yard, at the garden, mall, police station, jail, and basically everywhere possible =.= . Thats cam whores! their like TOTAL whores but a camera and picture type hahaha

2) Secondly, there's the I WANT TO TAKE VAIN PHOTOS BUT I DONT WANT ANYONE TO KNOW THAT I TOOK IT MYSELF" type. These kinda people are the ones that do not want others to think that their the ones that are taking their own vaining pictures so when they take pictures, they would normally do it by taking it themselves but they would face somewhere else so that people would think that someone else took it for them BUT hey! We're not stupid! We can see your arm FOOL!

3) Alright now here's the good part! Another type would be the "LALA or TU KAU" aka 29 type. These are the types of people whom are super overdressed and would take pictures with weird and funny poses! Their clothing would normally consist of -If a guy, then a vest, long jeans, slippers, singlet, tie and a totally disastrous hairstyle! that would make a perfect tu kau guy =D As for girls, they would consist of fishnets,clipped hairstyle to the side with some weird unexplainable hairdo, shorts and undesirable shoes! Alright now to their poses! They would normally take their pictures with half squat style, fingers pressed onto the cheek and posing like 1,2,3,4,5 or even 6 fingers! holy cow! well, those are the lala and tu kau types.

Well, these are the only three that i can come up with. Further info you have to be one to know =D There you have it, so which one are you, you yourselves know. =P

Due to excessive amount of free time, i have came up with a few types of girls that you should know exist in this world.

1)Innocent but notty type- These girls are innocent on the outlook but in bed, they cannot be tamed! WILD! Though quite loyal =)

2)The "Miss Popular" a.k.a "Miss Drama Queen" type is a type where trouble follows her everywhere! Watch out if your girlfriend is a miss popular cuz when they have nothing better to do, they'd create problems to you and to others alike.

3)The raging whore! This one is to be cautious with!! These type of girls are the ones to avoid! Unless if your a slut seeker then -.- The moment you turn your backs on them, they'd be giving other guys a nice banana milkshake, strawberry cupcakes, papaya peels and more 0.0 My oh my! these are the types that cannot be trusted at all times!!


There you have it the common 3 types of girls that exist in this world. For more information please contact me at my facebook and for emergency situations like when if your girlfriend has gone mad and crazy because you dumped her, kindly dial 999 for the nearest help =) HAVE A NICE DAY B******!

First date

Boys and girls here's a lesson for all you out there that is seeking true love and have found the true love but you just dont know what to do and your still new at it. Here's a few things ive learned and would like to share with you all


On the first date, the boys:
-Try not to rush things with your girl because girls do not like it. Take things a step at a time. They want guys that are patient and would wait for them because all girls are teasers! They want it but they say they dont because that would make them feel better. I dont see any benefit in that sooooooo conclusion is, girls are just TEASERS! So try to let them win most of the time even if you know that shes in the wrong because girls like to be pampered. Such teasers huh?


On the first date, the girls:
-Try not to tease your boy that much until he gets frustrated and goes home. Your just gonna shoo him away from you. Go for lunch and a movie. I recommend it =) Dont be shy to suggest where you want to go because if you dont and the boy takes you to a place that you dont like, you cant do anything bout it. Its ok to suggest a place to go because you guys are couples now. Your gonna share practically everything together. =D

Relationships upder pressure cooker

Girls and boys alike, are both seeking true love at the teenage age. Problem is, true love is hard to come by nowadays. People tend to play around with love. Example, the guy doesnt have feelings for the girl but still he will still lie to the girl and all just to be in a relationship cuz he feels his lonely and needs company. No no no no no no no no no no! Thats wrong cuz everyone has feelings too.
Alright back to the topic, you see people when two people are put under pressure where i like to call a pressure cooker, they tend to fall in love very quickly with each other. Im not sure if its a good thing or not but you can decide yourself at the end of the topic.


1)The girl and the boy went on a holiday together. Had a trip of a week. Before that they did not have feelings for each other. Didnt know each other that well even. So at the trip, the talked and had alone times together and in the 5 days process, they fell in love. From almost total strangers to lovers in just five days. Thats due to the pressure cooker of the trip.


2) Both the girl and the guy never knew each other but they added each other on facebook. They've not seen each other before so for the first time they are going out on a date together. At the date, they went for a movie and stuff like dat. The end of the day, both liked each other and one proposed so the other accepted. Thats the love they had for each other. One day from facebook buddies to lovers.


3)Both girl and boy are put in the same class for a week and they fall in love. The story goes on bla bla bla and im just too lazy to tell it all.


Point is, when a boy and a girl are put into a situation where both of them have nowhere to escape and their alone(somehow), so the love develops there but if its true love or not true love, its up to you guys to decide because personally i feel that it all depends on the situation. That's todays topic =D

I love you and I really need you.

If I tell you I don't love you then I'd be a liar coz you are my everything and I really miss you. Though you do not know this but Your always in my mind. All day all night I'd be thinking of you. Waiting and wishing for the day when you would tell me you love me once again. Though I messed up bad in the past but all I'm asking now is for you to give me another chance to  make it up to you. I'd do anything and everything just to hold you in my arms again, PYS.   

Famous or Infamous

Is being famous or infamous good? Why do teenagers in penang want to be famous so badly? I really dont get it. Ok let me break it down for you people on the pros and cons of being famous.

PROS:- I cant think of any XD


CONS:-1)People will know about whatever you do even the little little things. Example:-Once you pick your nose, everyone will talk about for the rest of your life.
-If you scratch your butt and someone sees you, then the whole of penang would call you the butt scratcher and everyone would avoid you. You would probally have to migrate somewhere else. Sometimes being famous isnt a good thing at all. Infamous they call it.

2)If you mix with this group of people, you will be the one shining and they will be the losers to the crowd. They would think that your friends are just following you just because your famous and they would benefit from you. That may sometimes be true but not always so dont be naive.

3)If you change your girlfriend or boyfriend, everyone would be talking about it and the rumors will grow and grow and grow as it pass from one person to another and by the time the rumor gets back to you, you will me amazed what lifeless people can come up with. Sometimes from your story, it can turn to an international standard news. How awsome people can be when they are lifeless and they gossip and come up with stories.


So its not good to be famous at all. All you get from being famous is just getting your private life being intervened by others. So lay low from the "paparazzi radar" and you will do fine. Live a normal life, cillax and life will be awsome! If your one of the gossipers reading this then fu*k your life, you deserve it and have a fu*ked up day XD

Embarassing moments

In some points of our lives, we will surely meet with some very embarrassing moments. I personally met with such multiple times again and again.
There was once when i was at the mall and i had to answer nature's call so i rushed to the nearby toilet. So, inside i went into the cubical to take a leak. Then suddenly i heard girls chattering away! I thought of going out and telling them that it was the mens' toilet but suddenly i realized that i'm the one whose in the women's toilet! My heart suddenly pounded like crazy! There were girls all around talking, putting on their makeups and gossiping away. Theres even a girl at the neighbouring cubical taking off her pants -_- ( i didnt peep if you guys are wondering. I heard the sound of her pants unziping.) I hid in the cubical for about half an hour hoping that everyone would leave the toilet. I kept quite. When i hear no sound from girls i quickily ran outside! There were still some girls there but i think they didnt notice me. Man, that was really embarrassing!

Complaints on net

I notice a lot of people usually complain about something in facebook. They post up every single little thing about themselves that happened. Its not like we want to know about your personal details. Example:-

1)If they hate someone they post up a lot of posts saying things like, Eww that girl's face is like *tomatoe* *banana* *papaya* *durian* *dolphins?* 0.0 But actually the person complaining doesnt look any better than who shes complaining about. Truth is, please look in the mirror before commenting about others. My advice would be to keep quite about it. If the person has done you wrong then he or she would get whats coming.

2)Some even make it like a conversation. They post something up and wait for people to comment on it then they ask a totally different and unrelated questions. There goes the super long spamming comments like hey where are you. i miss you. man im so bored. and stuff like that. For Your Information! theres something called MSN messanger! -.-

3)Some people post up everything they do. Example, Im brushing my teeth now. IM done brushing my teeth. now walking to my closet. now choosing my clothes. wow i see red green blue white black yellow shirts. im choosing now. and the list goes on -.- never ending business that people dont want to know about. Theres something called a diary. Write it there lol

Well thats it for today people =D Be good to be treated good. Thats life.

Boys or Girls

Alright this post is to compare whether boys are better or girls are better. =D Please dont be offended because this is just a fun post. Nothing serious about it and the facts may be wrong.

Ok here we go,

1) Boys are stronger than girls- 1 point for boys yay =D

2) Girls can seduce boys and boys cant do anything about it? - 1 point for girls boo XD

3) Boys can socialize better i guess - 1 point for boys yay =D

4) Parents tend to allow their sons to go out til late at night and not worry that much where as daughters not so. - 1 point for boys again yay!

5) Boys dont have little little problems like girls. Such as " OMG! dat bit*h backstabed me, im gonna get even with her." BUT infront of her, their like best friends XD -1 point for boys again muahaha =D

6) Girls have period which hurts alot from what i hear. Troublesome, waste of money, time consumption, energy wastage, waste of electricity and water. OMG! SO MUCH BAD SIDE TO IT! hahaha i guess girls gets 5 points deducted XD - -5 for girls hahaha!

Conclusion boys have 4 and girls have -4 so boys are better and girls are just trouble HAHA!!
Just kidding girls. It all comes down to the person. Different person have got different ups and down sides to them so just be yourself and enjoy life =D

Went to queensbay with ernest, ken, mavis, amelia, shereen, yong tin, xiang mei and rachael on friday. Sorry if i spelled your name wrongly ><
Lol everyone skipped school that day. I got caught by my stupid sister but nvm coz suprisingly my parents didnt say anything 0.0 Anyways i was an awsome day out =D

Biodata

Here's a biodata about me. The reason i'm posting this is because i want my readers to know me better and not have misunderstandings about me.

The name's henry ooi and myu birthday falls on 12th the January 1993 (12/01/1993 - for you dumbos out there =P) So you can say as of this moment i'm 17 years and 124 days old.

I'm currently 40kg ( i know im under weight =( ) Trying to get to 55kg. I like making people laugh, it makes me feel the sensation in my heart. I love doing crazy things with friends. I dont like daylight as the sun would me lt my skin, i prefer the dark empty night. JUST KIDDING! I'm not some emo kid or something. Truth is, i like it when the weather is cool.

Havent been updating my blog for awhile now so i guess im posting up more soon because suprisingly ive got a number of loyal readers =D Thanks for the support! You know who you guys are =D

Topic of the day : Jerks to be loved?

~This post has been written quit some time ago, about 3 weeks ago but i was too lazy to post it but now its here =) ~


Is it me or do you people realize that girls nowadays usually prefer jerks rather than good guys? The jerk treats the poor girl like dirt and yet she's soooooo hooked onto him for stupid reasons saying things like,-

1) Oh, he scolds and hits me because his angry. His not a mean person. ( Yeah right -.-)

2) If i ever leave him ill end up with no one. His too good to be true. ( Yeah too good to be bad to you)

What happened to girls these days? Have all girls gone blonde? (means stupid XD) Let me tell you, no one is out of anyone's league! No such thing as, "Oh, his so good looking. His so out of my league." No way! Everyone has their good and bad sides so everyone deserves to be loved.

You see, if a guy mistreats you, get your mind straight and get a better guy because you deserve a better guy than that jerk. Imagine, there are about 4billion people in this world and your stuck with a jerk like him? 1 out of 4 billion? doesn't make sense right? =) so ditch that f***er and get a better guy. Act now before its too late. That's my advice =)

Ever wonder what your life purpose is? Instead of always following what others want. What others think its right for you? Ever though that what you do might be wasting your time or you could be doing something better? I have. What am i doing studying and wasting my time in school for? After i graduate, im still going to study in uni for at least another 5 years. And then what? Work? Then what is the meaning in life? I think people should enjoy life and do the things they like no matter what people think weather its wrong or right. Instead of wasting time doing things they dont like. Make sense? Think about it people.

Rant of the day : Things to know about boys

Boys are funny creations of god if you ask me. They get excited for the littlest of things and chemistry happens down in their pants. XD Here are some things girls should know to help you girls understand your boyfriends or guy friends a little better. WARNING: these does not apply to all boys. It may all differ accordingly.)


1) Boys get easily jealous if his girlfriend is flirting with other boys but they themselves flirt with other girls. ( It does not apply to all boys out there) -: so the best way to counter this, girls, your better off with better guys XD


2) If you find something sticking up under his pants, don't get alerted and start whacking it. XD Its probally just you who is getting him all excited XD -: You can either pretend you did not see it, or if your the wild type, you can give it a little shake at somewhere alone to experiment to see what happends XD

There are more but i dont think im not gonna post it out or ill loose all my readers XD

Actually today's rant is for entertainment purposes. Nothing serious and all so dont take it too hard. I hope i dont scare you girls 0.0

Topic of the day : Finding Love

Today's topic would be about finding love. Love is out there and you will have to get out there and find it. If you like someone, dont be afraid to ask for their number or email because if you dont, you might loose your one chance of getting your one true love. Dont think just because you ask for her/his number, your cheap and all. That's totally not true! Sure it might be a little awkward at first but in the end you'll gain from it. Trust me! Its worth every of your shame, sweat, pride and value. This goes for both girls and boys alike. Dont think just because your a girl and your friends tell you that its cheap to ask for a guy's number. Let me tell you that guys wont think that way at all. Your friends are probally jealous that you have the guts to ask for a guy's contact and they cant.

Also, if the guy don't make the first move, then you do it. It wont hurt to let someone know you like them. Love dont just appear, you'll have to find it yourself! sometimes you'll have to do everything even if your a girl. Love is now or never, so go out there and find yourself your one true love but be careful. There are also downsides to it. If you want to read about the downsides, then just leave a comment at my facebook wall requesting for one. Thanks and all the best to you true love finders out there. =D

Topic of the day : Outlook or Heart

A lot of people wonder if the outlook or the heart of a person maters more. Well, here are my thoughts about it.
Firstly, outlook is important but its not everything because heart too matters. In fact, to me heart matters more in the long run coz it takes a lot of commitment, trust and love to have a well and loving relationship right? What if the partner is super good looking but deep inside he/she is just pretending to love and care for you. Worse, he/she cheats on you behind your back! So what i want to conclude is that heart wins over appearance in all ways. =) So go for a person for their heart and not all on the outlook. Ok people, that's all for today;s topic. REMEMBER, love a person for who they are inside and not who they are on the outside coz no matter how pretty or good looking you are, the sad and ugly truth is that everyone eventually gets old -.-

How to cheer up on breakups

If your feeling emo, sad and all, please dont do any of the things listed in the previous topic. Ive got some advice for you breakup emo cry-babies out there. =D

Here are the things can do to cheer yourself up (be warned, some of the things to do are not adviced but it can cheer you up)


1)Have some ice-cream? Mostly for girls as everyone knows that girls are greedy XD HAHA (The cheer up effect will only last for a few minutes when your consuming the ice-cream. After that, your gona feel sad again) ( not really recommanded but its good for temparaly relieval)


2)Give yourself a tight slap and tell yourself that there are over 20Billion people in this world and your sad over just 1 person out of the 20Billion? Think of the endless possibilities XD


3)Get a new partner to forget about the other person. (In with the new and out with the old) (not really recommended but it can really take your mind off about the breakup)



4)Go hang out with friends and enjoy yourself or go on a holiday with your bestest of friends. This will definately take your mind off on the breakup. (Highly recommended!)


5)Be single and tell yourself that being single actually is better than having a partner. The reason is because your not tied up. You can do the things you want to and not be afraid that your partner will get mad or anything. Also, being single enables you to know more people and flirt around more and enjoy yourself while doing so. (This is highly recommended because i myself is also single XD)


Dont ask me how it feels being single or am i happy being single because everyone have got their own viewpoints. Im not siding any so im keeping quiet on it =P If all those methods dont work, then call me up. Ill make u happy muahahaha! (girls only!) XD

Above all, the secret to it all is actually to be positive. If your thinking positively on everything, then you wont be sad. Not one bit really.

Topic of the day:Breakups

A lot of people do crazy things when they break up in relationships such as :

1)Listen to emo music in front of the comp and stare pointlessly at nothing

2)Cut themselves and bleed to death (mostly girls, if boys do it then their probaly pussies)

3)Sleep all day and all night and never wake up.

4)Eat less and less each day and finally die of anaroxia

5)Lock themselves in their room and quarantine themselves from society

I want to say that if you've done any of the things listed above, then your probaly stupid and emo XD No offence.
What i always say is that if your sad from breakups then get a new partner to forget the old partner. (IN WITH THE NEW AND OUT WITH THE OLD) XD

Nah, just kidding with ya'll. What you should do is that, if you would not want to get hurt then, dont start dating at an early age and if your old enough or you think your old enough, then take the time to know the person better, choose wisely and start slowly and then date. Dont just rush things. Mostly rushing would cause a bad relationship. If you are unsure if that person is a good or bad person and he has just proposed to you then you should probaly tell him or her that you need more time to know each other better. If he or she is a good partner for you then he or she will wait for you. So take your time and make the right decisions =D

This is just an advice for you people out there who is looking for love. Until next time, come back and view my blogs. If any of my advice helps then please tell me because it would really make me happy to know that i have helped someone =D

P license for car

I took my car exam yesterday and today the P license came out. Very happy because i dont have to count on my dad to drive me around anymore =D I can go places to places and not cause any inconvenience to anyone anymore. OH YEAH! How awsome is that?=D

Todays topic

Topic of the day: SCHOOL

Well, people always think that school is a place for only learning and full of dicipline. Do you agree with that? I say NO!! WAKE UP old timers! School is not only just a learning place. Its a place for making friends, building a social life, to be independent, and a lot more on charater building. In short it prepares us for the doggy dog world out there.

School should be a fun place to go so that students wouldnt ever think of not going to school. Instead students are happy to go to school to meet their friends, have fun and learn at the same time! That's the right way to learn. At least thats what i think.

What really ticks me off is that teachers or even principles saying:


1:Hey cut your hair boy, its too long. / Hey tie up your hair girl. Its too untidy!
(ok first of all, wtf does hair have to do with studies? Will it effect out studies? The answer is a complete no! Everyone wants to look good right? If teachers want to look ugly with no hair, then do so but dont tell us to be like you guys, its just bullcrap =D Secondly your not our parents, what rights have you got to tell us how to look? So i say this rule definately have to be scratched off!!)


2:Hey u there! Dont talk in class or off you go to the principle's office!
( When was talking ever a bad thing in life?? Obviously if your talking too loudly in class n disrupting the class, thats something else. If your talking softly to your friend, asking him about class work or just saying a sentence, i think theres no harm to it at all. In fact, if your not talking at all and just listening to the oh so boring teacher teach, then probally everyone would be falling asleep. Also, i think this need some improvement on for school teachers)


3:What I really hate is schools with super long hours. Naturally, if someone is awake and paying attention for long straight hours, they would be tired after everything is finished but thats not it. The school, expects the poor child to have his own revision after the super tiring school. Like wtf?! You make us tired and expect us to still have our own revisions? FYL! If schools with short menagable time tables, then students would be able to have their own revision and also have sufficient rest. Thats what the europeans are doing and look how they turned out. BETTER THAN US!


To counter these sucky rules, here are some tips and guides to help you survive the everyday life in school.

1:If you hate the teachers or principles of your school, i suggest you trash their cars when your out of school =P Do not do it when your still schooling. Remember, you still need them in order to pass.

2:Let all your stress and anger out when your having break. Go have a drink, chill, chat amongst friends, play pranks on each other and just blow your minds and have fun but dont go too far until you get detention -.-

3:When your bored in class and the teacher is just blabering away, i suggest you consume a sweet n sour candy to twinkle your taste buds XD or if you see your friends about to sleep, spray water on them to wake them up. Or simply just talk to your friends and joke around. Laugh a bit to be more alert. Just dont get caugh =P



All i want to say is that school life should be fun because we only get to go to school once so dont waste it. I recommend you have fun breaking a few rules once in a while to let off some stress BUT just dont get caught =P ENJOY YOUR SCHOOL LIFE PEOPLE! Yours truely~Henry Ooi =)

Technology

What can you do with technology these days? Here are some of the things you can do.

Buy it, use it, break it, fix it, trash it, change it, upgrade it, charge it, press it, snap it, work it, erase it, write it, get it, paste it, save it, load it, check it, quickly write it, play it, vert it, rip it, crack it, drop it, zip it, feel it, lock it, loose it, find it, view it, scroll it, browse it, cross it, twit it, update it, name it, read it, tune it, scan it, save it, fax it, touch it, ring it, watch it, turn it, leave it.

Wooooh dats all i know hahaha XD


Just a random stuff i thought of XD

Rant of the day

My rant of today would be how people are thinking on getting their loved ones. Some people with super high expectations wants a guy or girl with perfect features but all they
ever do is sit on their ass and wait. Don't you think its a bit out of sense? Your perfect partner wouldn't just come by your house and knock on your door and say hey im your perfect partner wana start dating? These kinda things dont happen in real life people! WAKE UP!


What i have learned in life is that you have to work for something to get it. The harder
you work for that something the better the situation will work out. Someone very wise
always say that, BE THE RIGHT ONE TO GET THE RIGHT ONE. That's very true from
what i see. So people stop sitting down on your asses and go find your one true love out there!
Love is now or never and everyone deserves to be loved =D But of course be careful when choosing the right one. Good luck and
please thank me if my rant of today helped you in any way =P

Exusses to hang up a long phone call

Some of you people out there are probally looking for ways to hang up on a long and boring phone call. Well then let me teach you a few exccusses to do so without having the person on the phone to ever finding out =D


excuse 1: I gotta go to the toilet coz i gotta lau sai! byebye! (There's no way the person on the phone can counter your excuse unless if he wants to hear you take a crap -_-)


excuse 2: Today was a long day n im so tired. Wana go get some rest cya. (There's still a way the person on the phone can counter this excuse coz some lifeless people tend to pretend they didnt hear what you said, so the best way if this happens is that you pretend to fall asleep and not answer the person haha! )


excuse 3: Hey i gotta go have (breakfast, lunch, dinner n etc). (This excuse is useful only after a few hours)


excuse 4: Hey i gotta finish my (homework, peka, folio n etc). (This excuse is useful if you combine it with excuse 2 because after giving this excuse you can followup with excuse 3 to avoid the person calling until the next day =D )

excuse 5: My dad wants me to do something for him. Cant talk now his really mad. ( Great to avoid someone for a long time =D)


Well, these are a few exccusses to give when you encounter long boring phone calls from lifeless people. How awsome is the invention of lying huh? XD

Appearance Evolution

When i was a baby









When i was 5(1998)

a pasport size photo of me when i was 5








When i was 12 (2005)

at a holloween party.





Im the one in pink when i was 12









When i was 13 (2006)

Most right was me when i was 13




This was how i looked when i was 13. (left me)











When im 14 (2007)

me on the left and my sister on the right XD





had my first peircing when i was 14 haha










When im 15 (2008)=D

Started skating at 15 but stopped at 16 haha





me on the left again in white











Some dinner





Donovan on the left and im on the right =)












When im 16 (2009)

Im the one with the purple cap. Aaron's the one covering his face with his hands and the one without shirt is ernest if your wondering =)





Left is me. The one kissing me is ernest. We're not gay but just best friends playing as fools XD And the middle one that looks like Ju-On is Ken XD





Ernest and i in gurney plaza's toilet haha (me in white // ernest in pink)










Im the one with spiky hair.





Im on the most left in white. easy to spot =)





Me trying on shoes. Wearing red btw.














This year (2010) age-17

Hair growing shorter and shorter due to school XD