Love and life has a lot in common. Both, we learn to do the right things but if we do the wrong things, we learn from our mistakes and to never repeat them through the easy way or the hard way. My love life isnt perfect, in fact it's complicated and pretty messed up.
I learned that love is something that everyone must go through sooner or later. May it be at high school, college, work place, neighbourhood, online, offline?, that line this line whose line my line your line -_-. Everyone has to go through it. I personally went through the hard way but recently ive learned something important in the process and i would like to share it with all of you.
You see, i made a wrong decision 2 years back and the outcome was huge. Sure it may be a good decision back then but after that i realized how stupid i was. After the day, my whole life came crumpling down without her. I just learned and realized from yesterday that no matter how hard you try to fix a sinking ship, you wont bring the ship back to it's sailing days.
People say that why wait for a tree when you can have a mountain full of trees? or even there are a lot of fishes in the sea and we'll be the fishermen/women. The meaning to these sayings are that why wait and commit all your time for a girl/guy when you can go looking for others more and far better than them? You may say it's because im loyal, committed and faithful but the thing is, the relationship is long gone and things wont be the same any more. Time wont rewind and things wont be like it used to be so i say, move on. Find a better one, you deserve better treatment because everybody deserves to be loved right? RIGHT! Though you may still love the person very very much still, but it cannot be helped. No matter how hard you try, things arent the same anymore and it wont get any better if you try harder. Best to give up and look for a new one to start a new life with them. Memories will never fade but nevertheless move on... No point waiting.
The point is, even though you still love that person, you may still continue with your life and find a new one. Who knows maybe the love for the new person may overlap the old one. Loyal and committed is another thing. Most people dont get how it really goes. I myself dont, until just yesterday. Commitment and loyalty towards someone is when your partner shows it to you as well. Its a two way thing. You cannot do it alone. So if you guys are still stuck at a point, i suggest you move on =/ If you guys need any advice, ring me up. Im there to listen to your sad stories because i myself have been through it. Everyone has their own set of sad story. =/
