Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Ways people seek attention from the opposite sex

      We all have a friend or know someone whose an attention seeker whom will die for attention. Well, in my opinion, its not wrong or right, or good or bad to be seeking attention because its just natural to be wanting a little attention especially from the opposite sex. You know its true! It also varies to how they are doing it but here's a few examples that are too much so that its annoying, obvious and just plain dumb. Extreme much cases.


1)he/she posts everything on Facebook or on the blog. Believe me, EVERYTHING! Its quite annoying at times as it floods your Facebook feed with just their lifestyle. They'll just post everything they do for that day and hope someone would like their post or comment on them. They post up things like what their having for breakfast, lunch, tea, dinner, supper. Also on new things they've recently bought and all the annoying stuff. This is quite extreme where if you want to know about that person, just add them on Facebook and you'll know them thoroughly without even the need to befriend them in real life. These are the attention seekers I like to call, "PUBLIC DIARIES"


2)moving on is one where (mostly girls), They will post up complaints on Facebook and hoping people will notice them and give pity onto them.  They will complain about their job, their life, their family, friends and just basically every little thing in life that no one would even want to care about. Then she'll wait for people to comment and cheer her up. She sets the trap and waits for the bait. Don't fall for their trap because if you try to ask them what's happening, if you're a girl they'll say "oh its nothing really". If you're a guy, she'll probably say "oh darling! Its awful! Its this and that and blah blah blah blah!" but in fact she just missed an episode of glee.


3)this one is a bit similar with the second one except it happens to both gender. The person will post a picture of himself/herself vaining and have himself/herself comment on his/her own photo saying,"I'm so ugly". In fact the picture will probably be the best picture they've ever taken with the best possible angle and photoshopped ever. Then they wait. Waiting for somebody to comment things like "oh no your not!" Then they'll be so happy that they reply with "oh yes I am ugly!" to keep the compliments going and going and going! I call this, "FISHING FOR COMPLIMENTS"


4)That annoying person that tries so hard to crack up jokes all the time but only when there are people of the opposite sex around. Sometimes their not funny! In fact, their annoying, stupid, lame,dumb and sometimes offensive. Its like their a total different person when it comes to having other people of the opposite sex around. They just try too hard to get their attention. We all have that friend now and then. True story.


If you are one of these examples or your all of them combined, >=0

Think this, we don't need to get so much attention from people. We don't necessary need the attention from others because god sees our heart and our intentions. If you do good, god will surely give you the attention and credit your need and wanted. So there is no need to put in such a tremendous amount of effort in getting attention from everybody. Please god, that's all you ever need really. Leave your comments down below here and tell us what kind of attention seekers youve encountered :)


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1 comment:

Unknown said...

Seriously, I can relate to this post of yours. Public diaries and fishing for compliments in particular. Annoys the life out of me. =3=