Years dont count if your not with the right one

     I notice that many many many many many many teenagers out there are facing love problems, heartaches, broken heart, lost hope and so on. One case in particular that I want to talk about today is for those of you who have already been in a relationship for a few years now but things just aren't working out so well. If you are one that's having a bf/gf that is not so good to you, then you should read til the end. Those wo arent having this problem, finish reading too! >=O

     In my point of view, a healthy relationship is when both boy and girl give and take. Both tolerate each other for their mistakes and flaws. Being able to see each others' imperfections perfectly.

     There is absolutely no point in being together if you're the one giving all the love and your partner just gets and dont do anything about it. Look at it this way, there is no point loving someone who does not love you back! Worse if he/she doesnt even care about you! Its like you didnt even exist. No matter how much love and affection or no matter how much effort you put in trying to make that person love you, it will not work. It's best you give up on this relationship and find a new and better one.

     I know you might say things like, "We've been together for 5 years now and it'll be such a waste if I let go of this relationship. I can make this right again. I can make him/her love me again!" Well, im sorry to say that sadly, this is not the case. It does not matter how many years you've went through together, those years gone dont and wont mean a thing if your partner is shit! Seriously, if he/she is not treating you right, then you should have left him/her straight away without feeling guilty or sad because its their loss. Why? Because he/she just lost someone who is able to love them despite them being asses. As for you, be glad you are able to get out of this dump and find yourself a better partner really. YOU DESERVE BETTER! Dont force yourself into something you do not want in the first place. Think about it, no one is really forcing you except you yourself. You have the rights to choose who you be with.